I wanted to post quickly, practically a drive through post. But you know, fast food is not really my style. Seriously, I don't even eat McDonald's. So I won't rush through this either. Just a moment of stillness instead, turning inward... In the silence, thoughts bubble up... Nora's post on The Animal Within Me which invites us to consider what … Continue reading Not Rushing Through
Author: olivia
Her Heart
She is kneeling, naked, of course. Wearing the collar, not the day collar, which is light and pretty and almost looks like any necklace, but the training collar, which is metal and heavy. There are three rings set into the collar, often one or more attached to a leash or to a set point - the bed, … Continue reading Her Heart
Female Orgasm
As promised, i've been reading up a bit on female orgasm. The type of orgasm that i was curious about didn't make it to the list - so maybe it is not an orgasm at all. I don't know. If i'm feeling brave as i write this post, i might describe it hear and see if it happens … Continue reading Female Orgasm
Dom Magic – In That Moment
She was laughing and blushing a little bit, as she always did when he laughed at her accent. It was a southern accent for sure, with a touch of country, and she thought he laughed because he liked it. So she was blushing, self-conscious, and protesting that she didn't sound like that, which only made him laugh … Continue reading Dom Magic – In That Moment
In the Poly Realm
Now that I actually have two Doms, I'm feeling a bit like I'm living in a romance novel. A kinky romance novel, like the ones my friend Raleigh Damson writes. It will be interesting to see what plot twists lie ahead! (By the way, pre-order is now available for Raleigh's 7th Bandit Brothers book, Flame for Keeps, … Continue reading In the Poly Realm
Olivia Gets Paddled
I was bent over the end of the bed. It is a high bed, and I am a short woman, so with my torso on the bed, my toes just touch the floor. I am naked. I have been directed to take my clothes off and fold them neatly, which I did. Now there is nothing between me … Continue reading Olivia Gets Paddled
A Whirlwind
Having Sir Jon in my life is a little bit like living in a whirlwind - although i have to confess, it's a co-created whirlwind. I do my share of adding to it. It's as if i've been attending to my inner submissive needs of the last 7 or 8 years all in a few weeks. Wild. My … Continue reading A Whirlwind
Just Thinking
As youall know, this sudden deep plunge into D/s waters has unbalanced my life in the best of ways. My passions upset my balance. I think that's just how it works. I trust myself to go through these disruptions to my vision of what should be, make room for what is, and come out the other side, … Continue reading Just Thinking
Ethical Polyamory
From the beginning, Sir Jon has been open and totally clear about his intention to have more than one D/s relationship. I am equally clear that I'm fine with that. I want him to be free to in whatever ways are important to him. In the same way, I expect space to be able to do what I … Continue reading Ethical Polyamory
Attentiveness
I've been thinking about all kinds of things lately, many of them related to my relationship with my Sir. Some of them, he brought up on his blog in his post Sunday Musings. I've been following the comments on that with great interest, of course. Thanks to those of you who offered to explore the topics further with … Continue reading Attentiveness
Olivia 