Having Sir Jon in my life is a little bit like living in a whirlwind - although i have to confess, it's a co-created whirlwind. I do my share of adding to it. It's as if i've been attending to my inner submissive needs of the last 7 or 8 years all in a few weeks. Wild. My … Continue reading A Whirlwind
Just Thinking
As youall know, this sudden deep plunge into D/s waters has unbalanced my life in the best of ways. My passions upset my balance. I think that's just how it works. I trust myself to go through these disruptions to my vision of what should be, make room for what is, and come out the other side, … Continue reading Just Thinking
Ethical Polyamory
From the beginning, Sir Jon has been open and totally clear about his intention to have more than one D/s relationship. I am equally clear that I'm fine with that. I want him to be free to in whatever ways are important to him. In the same way, I expect space to be able to do what I … Continue reading Ethical Polyamory
Attentiveness
I've been thinking about all kinds of things lately, many of them related to my relationship with my Sir. Some of them, he brought up on his blog in his post Sunday Musings. I've been following the comments on that with great interest, of course. Thanks to those of you who offered to explore the topics further with … Continue reading Attentiveness
Wicked Naughty Interlude 7
Bound to the massage table, her wrist cuffs attached to rings in the sides of the table, Olivia was unable to get up or even try to protect herself from the belt. Her ass was raised, ankle cuffs fastened so that her legs were spread, leaving her most sensitive parts exposed. And she was completely focused on … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 7
Daily
A bit tired and head-achy this morning - nothing more coffee won't fix. Yesterday, I mentally wrote the whole next installment of Wicked Naughty, but this morning, it feels a bit overwhelming to actually write it down. I know, I don't have to write it for youall, at least that's what I think you'll say. But I … Continue reading Daily
Stupid Vulnerability
“But, chiquita, you must understand that while you are here, I expect you to come to me and share your fears. Even if I am the one causing them.”― Cherise Sinclair Ok, ok, vulnerability is not actually stupid, I know. And I practice it all the damn time. No, right, not really ALL the time, but … Continue reading Stupid Vulnerability
Alpha Submissives
I've considered myself a alpha submissive since I first heard the term. In my vanilla life, I don't seem submissive - only the most astute Dom would think that I might be. I've always been grateful for the term alpha submissive since it seems to explain something about me. I used to really like the term "princess … Continue reading Alpha Submissives
Wicked Naughty Interval 6
Smack! Sir Jon's hand landed on her other ass cheek and she moaned, but relaxed into the sting. He continued spanking her, alternating cheeks. Bound to the massage table as she was, olivia could not escape the blows. And she didn't really want to escape. Sir Jon paused every few spanks and rubbed her ass, or ran his hand over … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interval 6
Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
Olivia, lying face down on the massage table, was absorbed by the warm, relaxed feeling of the massage she was experiencing. Betsy and Candace had worked their way down to her feet, and olivia was moaning softly with pleasure. As they finished working on her feet, olivia vaguely wondered what would happen next. "All finished?" It was … Continue reading Wicked Naughty Interlude 5
Olivia 