I’ve spent part of the morning planning the rest of the month and next quarter. I’ve started using a paper and pen planner, something I haven’t done since I had a “Daytimer” in my pre-computer days. i bought myself some fancy gel pens and have color coded my life, which is something i’ve never done before.
I’m using the Dragontree Rituals for Living Dreambook and Planner which i really like. I’m not using it as fully as i could, but i think i’ll grow into using more aspects of it. And if i don’t, that’s probably ok too.
But i’ve been listening to this – Sacred Spirit Drums with David and Steve Gordon – which i really like.
As i listen, i begin to breathe more deeply, more slowly.
i had put some tasks on my calendar for today, thinking that i’d feel better if i got them done now rather than waiting until Monday when i have all kinds of new things beginning. But i notice that when i think about doing them, my body hunches over and my chest gets tight, my stomach feels weird.
I remind myself that i don’t have to do those things today. I can if it will make me feel better. But they aren’t due today. I’m not obligated to do them. It’s Sunday. I’m off work. i can spend my day taking care of myself if that feels like what i need to do.
It’s ok. The stuff will get done. And even if i decide to do it later today, i don’t have to be all tense and miserable right now. Right now, just doing what i’m doing is enough. And – let’s go for the big cliche – i am enough.
Funny… I did something similar (while being 180º different) yesterday. I ended up doing a task I have been putting off for MONTHS… because I suddenly realized I was actually in the mood to do this dread thing. I would have bet money I would never be “in the mood” for it, I was just hoping for “won’t cause me to slit my wrists”… but there you have it.
The universe can be a peculiar place.
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Lol, it certainly can be! That gives me some huge hope for the future, thank you very much!! ❤
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Hi Olivia,
I hope you find the planner helps. I’m terrible at stressing over tasks I need to do next week let alone today!
Hugs
Roz
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Thanks Roz, so far I’m really loving it!! And yeah, i can stress over next weeks tasks too! It’s a skill. Hugs…
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i love colourful pens. they help me put things down in my planner. and yes, i use pen/pencil and a month-to-view planner 🙂
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They are fun!
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