… Question month! Got any pressing questions for me? This is the time to ask. No question will be left unanswered. 🙂
In other non-news, i’m tired. This morning i’m just tired of being responsible for every damn thing in my life. That means not just my life but my family’s life. I’m just tired.
Both MP and my realtor advised me completely wrong on something. When I showed MP the information that let me know what he’d said was wrong, and that I was working on changing it, he said, “Ok.” NOT “Oh, I didn’t realize…’ not “Well that’s different from what I thought,” certainly not a “I’m sorry, I didn’t know that.” Just “ok.”
My realtor will not be less nonchalant about it, I’m sure. And he definitely should have known.
i feel like i can’t trust the people who are supposed to be there for me. And it’s not like this thing is a huge big deal. Ok, it kind of is. Both MP and my realtor told me there was no need for me to be present for the home inspection for this house I”m buying. No need for MP to be there either. So it was scheduled for today, and I”m out of town. But when I read the contract? It strongly recommends that I be there for it. The contract says it’s essential that I be there to fully understand the report.
So fuck them both. I’m trying to reschedule. We’ll see.
Update: reschedule done. At least there’s that. But in the back of my head are two kind of fantasies – one is of someone who is there for me in a way that takes responsibility for his share, and one is of someone who loves to spank me and control me in the bedroom. We won’t even imagine someone who would do both.
Haha, it is like my old friend Sir Whatever I Used to Call Him used to say. I am indeed too frigging competent for my own good. That no longer stings the way it used to,but there is still truth in it. Remember the time that MP said he appreciated me because I made his life easy? Yeah same thing.
If i were not so good at taking care of every damn thing, i would not get stuck doing it all the damn time.
Ok, whine time is over, and i didn’t even have cheese to go with it. Onward…