…there is plenty to worry about, but i don’t actually have to worry about any of it.
i am not really sure i want to have sex with some stranger. i mean, why can’t Sir just keep being the way he is now?
But i don’t have to worry about it. We’ll figure it out. i think. i just need to flow with it. This is the lesson today:
“When something difficult happens, you will train yourself to stop saying, “Damn! Why did this have to happen?” and begin saying, “Yes, of course, this is how it is. Let me turn toward it, let me practice with it, let me go beyond entanglement to gratitude.”
Because you will have realized that because you are alive and not dead, because you have a human body and not some other kind of a body, because the world is a physical world and not an ethereal world, and because all of us together as people are the way we are, bad things are going to happen. It’s the most natural, the most normal, the most inevitable thing in the world. It is not a mistake, and it isn’t anyone’s fault. And we can make use of it to drive our gratitude and our compassion deeper.”